Today I am introducing a new theory, Theory of Love. And this is my perception . Do not read this theory as a human being, read it as if you are a human machine. I am going to explain it mathematically. According to theory of love
LOVE IS SUPERSET OF ALL TYPES OF ATTRACTIONS BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE AND QUALITY OF LOVE DIRECTLY DEPENDS ON TYPE AND NUMBER OF ATTRACTIONS
Now I'll explain this theory with the help of one example of one boy and one girl. You can take both boys or both girls for your clarifications. One day boy saw the girl. He was attracted by girl. It was girl's appearance, her beauty, her looks that attracted him. This can be called love in first sight. Next day he started talking with her and he found it an attracting way of talking. After some days Boys proposed her to have dinner with him. now days were being spent by them like this. when each one started to understand other's behavior relation started to be weak, because they didn't find it comfortable. And they broke up.
Before explanation I want to introduce new term "love point". Between two people there are some love points. these love points can be negative or can be positive. If love point is positive , it is called attraction and if it is negative then it is called repulsion. if one has known the type of some love points . and these are only attractions, this is the qualitatively purest form of love .but if there are still many more love points to be known yet, these points can be attractions or can be repulsions. then this love is quantitatively weak love. although it is pure love but with time it can be impure due to the lack of knowledge of other love points.
Now come back to the example of boy and girl. When boy saw the girl then it was pure love as there was only attraction. but quantitatively it was very weak love. because with time repulsions might be increasing. Next day when boy talked to girl he found it attractive. now one more attraction increased. Till now love was pure and quantitatively was being strong because number of attractions were increasing. but with time when they were understanding their behaviors few repulsive love points were entering in their love life. when one love point came in light which they did not like each other's, one repulsion was increased. now because of one repulsion quality of love was not as much pure as in early days. now one day whey they found total love became negative due to more number of repulsive type love points they broke up.
problem arises when people come to know about repulsions after long time. one should be enough intelligent to known the purity of love as soon as possible.
sorry I forgot to tell about one more love point. that is neutral love point. As name is self describing, no need to explain it. We are human beings. we have capability to convert repulsions into neutral love points. That increases the purity of love. That is one kind compromise.
9 comments:
Bagga in form....Back to back blogs...good yaar and keep it up...Actually i find your theories jumping over my head...vaise tell me whch type of luv u fall in and wht is ur neutral point...If u have weak luv with any of ur dear girls (or my bhabhi's), plz let me knw so that i can make her ur bhabhi :P)
mast dost.......yaar tu ekdum modern love guru hai...Newton of the World of love...
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hello buddy......went through this one also:) this one is really good.....i won't disagree with your classification of love....more or less this is actually the way it has to be portrayed....but i have an open doubt here...in terms of loyalty of one towards another.....considering your case of a boy and girl.....i want to understand and quantitatively fix the limits of fidelity of one individual towards other.....right now..i think.....it should be infinitely long with no limits..but deep inside , i know that this is not practically possible and at one point , we certainly have to apply brakes....please help me in finalizing the point...
thanks
To bhat boss:
As you said it is not practically possible,it is because we are human baings, and love is dominant over us. If you have read "human- an innocent animal", then you should have understood that if this is not possible then love is using you, not you are using love. Whenever we use our mind to solve our problem, affect of problem do not let us to use our mind. But when we have to solve others problem, it seems too simple to solve. we can't solve our problems proprely because we are being used by our attributes(love , anger deppression etc). and we feel others problems easy because othres attributes can't use use.
And if we need to apply brakes, means we are not using theory of maximum enjoyment properly. why do we love? because it makes us happy. we enjoy it. At this poit we have to understand that this enjoyment is maximum (for maximum duration of time) or not. if not then love is using us, not we are using love. I know this is very difficult to reign the love, because love is too strong. and our weakness' makes it strong. if we have to understand this complexity of life we need to think as a machine not as a human being.
Great bagga.., love points,love principles...QUALITY of love...!!:P :P all these are lousy terms :D but thnk god, I read it as a human machine...
I(acc to human beings) guess thr r no such points,theories,principles...And I strongly say Love isn't a superset of Attractions!!
Frankly speaking--Infatuation is a short lived madness. and yeah love is not short!!Love is a ever lasting feeling that jus happens and that makes life more beautiful..an other perception :)
infatuation is also one kind of love , but it is not love to other person .it is a love to thinking of getting something. As you said this is short lived. yes this changes as one's thinking changes, because this is love to thinking of getting somthing. And this is not love to some person. but the affect of this type of thinking forces the thinker to assume it as love to other person.
have you ever thought of the difference between the two situations, one when you miss someone very much and 2nd when you get angery with the same one. at this points, quality of love is different. if this anger or diagreement forces you to go away from other one then it becomes negative love point. and sometimes it's inferiority increases upto an extend You started to hate other one. There are many live examples that can prove this. that is the reasos breake ups take place. that is the reason divorces take palce, and someone gets away from other one may be forever.
Love is one of our mind states. its life tells the quality of love. if it exists forever, it is the best quality of love.
bagga, ur concepts are OHP :P. you knw I cant understand such jargons.U better explain this to Tarun, he will help me in reaching u. :) :) oye Tarun, wat say??
What is goin on here??
Which quality have you reached so far?? :D
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